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Let's Killthe Precedent.

The podcast that names what the system calls unspeakable — in plain language, with receipts, by the people who lived it.

Host Toni Bones
Topics Coercive Control · Family Court · Accountability · Survival
Format Interviews · Stories · Spotlights · Investigations
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The Record

Long-form interviews with survivors, advocates, attorneys, researchers, and practitioners who are changing how the system sees — or are trying to. Documented, cited, and unfiltered.

Core Episode Format

Doing the Work

Spotlights on individuals — caseworkers, officers, judges, attorneys, advocates — who are doing right by the people they serve. The good ones still in there deserve to be seen and named publicly.

Positive Spotlight

Name & Pattern

Documented accounts of predatory, corrupt, or coercive behavior by people in positions of power. No speculation — patterns, public records, and sourced accounts only. Social ostracization is a peaceful and legitimate form of accountability.

Accountability Spotlight
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What the Research Says

Breaking down studies, federal data, and policy research into plain language. The numbers behind the system — accessible to anyone, not just people with law degrees.

Research Deep Dive
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Your Story

Listener-submitted accounts — anonymized or named at the submitter's choice — read and contextualized. You are not alone, and your story is data. Pattern recognition starts with documentation.

Listener Stories
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The Precedent

Case law, civil rights claims, and legal arguments explained in plain language. What your rights actually are, what it looks like when they're violated, and what's being done about it.

Legal Education
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Follow the Money

Funding structures, financial incentives, and the economic architecture that drives child welfare and family court decisions. Following federal dollars to understand why systems behave the way they do.

Investigative
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The Co-Host Chair

Regular guest co-hosts — advocates, survivors, professionals — who bring their perspective to the table for a full episode. Rotating voices. Rotating expertise. One mission.

Collaboration

The written research on this site is thorough and sourced. But there are people who will never read it — people who are driving to a custody exchange, working a night shift, lying awake at 3am after a court date that went wrong. They need to hear this in their ears, in plain language, in a voice that has been where they are.

Podcasts reach people that articles don't. They reach professionals on their commute — the caseworker who might hear something that changes how they approach a case tomorrow morning. They reach legislators' staff. They reach journalists looking for a story. And they reach the survivor who has been told for years that what happened to them wasn't real — and who needs to hear someone else name it out loud.

The system counts on isolation and silence. A podcast is a direct counter to both — in real time, accessible to anyone with a phone.

There is also something specific about audio for survivor testimony that written content cannot replicate: you hear the hesitation before a hard sentence, the steadiness in a voice that has every reason to break, the exact tone of someone who has decided to stop being quiet. That is not a podcast feature. That is evidence. And it lands differently than text on a page.

This podcast will be a record — in both senses. Documentation of what is happening to families in this country, and an audio record that cannot be explained away or quietly disappeared. Every episode will be sourced, archived, and treated as the accountability infrastructure it is.

The system documents everything it does to survivors. It's time survivors documented everything the system does to them — and broadcast it.

This podcast operates on a core belief: accountability does not require violence, and it does not require the legal system. It requires documentation, community, and the willingness to name what is true in public.

✦ Doing the Work

People who deserve to be seen and named publicly for doing right

The caseworker who flagged a removal that didn't need to happen and put it in writing
The officer who recognized a DARVO dynamic and wrote a report that reflected what actually happened
The judge who ordered a coercive control evaluation before ruling on custody
The attorney who took a case pro bono because someone needed a civil rights claim filed and couldn't pay
The advocate who stayed late, who answered the 2am call, who found the resource nobody else knew about
The researcher whose work became policy — or the activist who made sure it did

⚑ Name & Pattern

Documented patterns of predatory or corrupt conduct — sources required

GALs and custody evaluators with documented patterns of recommending custody to abusive parents
CPS workers with sustained misconduct findings who transferred agencies without consequence
Judges with documented patterns of dismissing DV allegations in custody proceedings
Attorneys who use litigation as a financial extraction mechanism against survivors already depleted by abuse
Organizations receiving public funding while producing documented harm outcomes
Institutions that protect their own personnel over the families they are mandated to serve

On social ostracization as accountability: The legal system is not the only mechanism of accountability available to communities — and for many survivors, it is the least accessible and least effective one. Naming documented patterns of harmful conduct publicly, truthfully, and with sources is a legitimate, nonviolent form of community accountability. It protects future victims. It disrupts the institutional protection that allows harm to continue. And it operates through the most fundamental democratic mechanism available: the right of people to know who they are dealing with. This podcast will name names when the documentation supports it — carefully, accurately, and with every source on the record.

Whether you have a story to share, want to collaborate, or know someone who deserves a spotlight — this is how you reach us. All submissions are confidential until and unless you choose otherwise.

Submit Your Story

Your Voice on the Record

Survivors, witnesses, practitioners, researchers — if you have a story that connects to this work, we want to hear it. You control whether it is anonymous, named, or somewhere in between.

All submissions are confidential. Nothing is published without your explicit consent.

Collaborate or Co-Host

The Co-Host Chair Is Open

Advocates, attorneys, researchers, practitioners, survivors who have become experts — if you have something to add to this conversation, we want to build with you. Guest co-hosts, episode collaborations, and ongoing partnerships welcome.

We read every submission. Response time varies — we're a small operation with a large mission.

Be the First to Know

Drop your email and we'll notify you the moment the first episode drops. No spam. No selling your information. Just the podcast, when it's ready.